ive been totally out of the cult for over half my life--i'm 67 now. i only discovered this online world of ex-jw's 5 years ago.
some of my family are still in it--probably for good. nothing i can do about it--ive been shunned most of that time.--except for my father--who is 94 now and--i'm sure--has his own private thoughts about what is right--and wrong---with his religion.
over the years--ive come across a fair number of ex-jw's. some want nothing to do with it--have moved on with their lives and have successfully blotted out the past.
others havent done so well----still believing its the truth and they will die at armageddon. mostly they are women----and--quite frankly i think they would be better off back in the cult.
they often display serious mental health issues--dabbling in spiritism or other arcane ideas. sometimes this leads to physical "illnesses" too--either real or imaginary.